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Welcome

When a person starts treatment, it is a time of unknowns and uncertainties. It is also a time of hope. This is particularly true for family members who trust an adolescent or young adult to our care and we want to offer this additional help as you adjust and heal. What you will find on these pages are words of encouragement, resources, and exercises. Our goal is to provide information that can educate you and alleviate some of the stress that comes with treatment and recovery, covering topics that arise over the span of the treatment stay and beyond.

There is a necessary period of time after you leave your loved one at Hazelden Betty Ford and before we can contact you with more detailed plans, because the care team is getting to know their new patient and helping them transition to our program. Please look to the resources below such as "The First 72 Hours" for more information about what is happening during those early days. Also, take a moment to read "What Patients Want Their Caregivers to Know" which was written from interviews with young people who were at our Plymouth location in late-2023 and gives a glimpse into what they are experiences. And, for your own journey, there are articles to help you learn more about addiction and substance use disorders as well as methods for coping with feelings as you begin your own healing.

What Patients Want Their Caregivers to Know
The main thing that patients want their caregivers to know is that addiction is not a choice.

Your Loved One’s First 72 Hours at the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation
The main focus during these hours is on a patient’s safe and stable transition out of active use and into recovery.

What Is a Substance Use Disorder (SUD)?
The concept of substance use disorder as a medical disease can help people realize they should seek help for it.

Understanding Your Reactions When Your Loved One Enters Treatment
Whatever you are feeling right now, know that you are not alone. SUD is a family disease, and everyone in the family deserves help.

What to Expect at Hazelden Betty Ford Inpatient Treatment
We have crafted a schedule that keeps patients occupied, encourages communication, and allows for supervised free time.

Why Is Family Involvement Important in Addiction Treatment and Recovery?
Studies show that family members play an important role in their loved one’s recovery. 

Video: Finding Calm
We won't tell you to calm down, but we can help you find your calm, yourself.

Supporting Your Loved One in Treatment
Do your best to listen to your loved one without taking sides. Then ask questions.

Taking Care of Yourself
When it comes to caregiving, we’re often the last people on the “care” list.

Video: Emotions Beneath Our Anger
Scientists say anger is one of the most easily tapped emotions. But what's behind it?

Video: Advice from Others in Recovery
Early in your loved one's treatment, it's important to keep in mind what's possible.

How Have You Been Impacted by Your Loved One’s Substance Use?
Living with a loved one’s substance use can take a toll.

Video: The Need for Self-Care
Time to check in with yourself.

Hope for Family Recovery
As each person who experiences substance use disorder heals, the family heals too.

Video: Understanding Emotions
As your loved one progresses through treatment, you will inevitably hear more of their emotions come out.

Video: Our Self-Esteem
We hope you feel good about how you're changing your life for the better.

Video: Mindfulness
Connect with yourself without distractions or judgements in just minutes a day.

Video: Challenging Our Thoughts
Trauma is our bodies’ response to difficult events. We can develop unhelpful thinking patterns, but we don't have to accept them.

Video: Shame and Guilt
These emotions can come from reflecting on thoughts, behaviors, and feelings as well as managing stigma. 

Healthy Communication Starts Now
Communication affects how we solve problems, resolve conflicts, and build trust.

Continuing Care Is Essential to Your Loved One’s Recovery
Research shows that people who continue to take steps to get help after treatment are far more likely to succeed.

Mutual Support Groups: Recovery Is Rooted in Connection
Participating in mutual support meetings is proven to help people sustain and strengthen their recovery in the long term.

Why Is It Important to Talk about Relapse?
It's important to acknowledge that both the person in recovery and family members can return to unhealthy behaviors.

Video: Parenting - Leaving a Legacy
You've changed, your loved one has changed. What about your relationship?

What Happens After Inpatient Treatment?
Aftercare is an all-encompassing term referring to further treatment your loved one may be recommended, including outpatient programming and sober housing.

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